Some Emotions Your Mom & You WILL Share During The Wedding!

We guarantee you’ll never feel as close to your mommy as you will when you’re getting married. Prepare for extreme emotions and practice blinking back the tears…together! After all, there’s no greater team than mom and you, right?

1. Absolute Panic

Before the wedding, it suddenly hits you – will you ever be able to live in a different house than mom? She’s wondering the same thing!

2. Crazy Excitement

The two of you can’t help but feel so much excitement at all the shopping and fun moments that are going to lead up to the wedding.

3. Sudden Bouts of Sadness

But suddenly it really hits you both that soon you won’t be able to wake up to each other’s faces.

4. Waves of Nostalgia

Mom rummages through old pictures and can’t help but wonder, “When did you grow up?” You wish you had an answer!

5. Irritating Times

You can’t help but argue with mum when she doesn’t agree with you about wedding details! You know you’ll miss her and everything but she needs to understand this is your wedding and you want things a certain way.

Sajansajanimarriage.com Wish You Happy Mother's Day to All Mother's

**Happy Mother's Day**, my best friend!

I love you. And you know that.

As I start to write this, tears roll down my eyes and cheeks, already.

I firstly thank you for giving me birth.

For bearing the excruciating labour pain and giving me life.

For cleaning my diapers while I was a baby.

For loving me more than anything else in this world.

I have a dream. And I can't do this without you, just like any of my other dreams.

You were my best friend during school days. I have shared every single detail with you. Everything.

The studies. The gossip. The boys. The teachers. Everything I did.

What you said was bible to me.

I have very diligently followed to each and every advise you gave. And I never needed a friend, because you were there.

Then all of a sudden I shifted base to an extremely modern city wherein I was under a cultural shock for an year.

I had never seen students kissing in college. Smoking openly or hurling abuses.

I was very scared. Like a cub. As I started to tell you this, you got scared too and wanted me to come back.

But I wanted to experience a new place and learn things on my own. I wanted to work hard and make a name for myself.

So I decided to stay.

I was naive. Once during my photography classes I saw two dogs doing something funny and clicked them. I was later stopped by a friend because they were actually having an intercourse.

I knew nothing at all.

Never dated anyone.Never stayed at a friends place for a night out. Never went out for a movies with friends.

While I was trying to adjust in a new place away from you, I also became extremely low on self esteem because of my weight. I saw how the cute looking men never gave me a second glance. Though,the ones I didn't like , were all over me.

I was betrayed by my friends on several occasions. I was made fun of and ridiculed a number of times for various reasons.

College was a difficult time for me and I grew apart from you further and further.

I couldn't share things with you.

Unfortunately we belong to two different generations and I could not explain you well.

I never smoked, did hookah or any kind of drugs. Till date I'm proud of this.

But how could I tell you about my first kiss ? How could I tell you about the first time I touched a guy ?

I couldn't. We live in a city and society where a girl is supposed to do to everything only after marriage. And yes I was convinced too.

But my first boy friend whom I thought I would marry, was a complete retard.

I cried for days after the break up.

Why did I kiss him? Why did I let him hug me ?

Funnily I dated him for an year and met him just once and thought that was love.

But a dream was shattered here. The dream to marry the first guy, you fall in love with.

I was ashamed of myself. But couldn't tell you this. I failed as a daughter here.

I became busy with my never ending assignments and you with your work.

I started lying about going to parties and other small stuff because you'd say no to my request invariably.

I knew I was responsible for my own.

But this hiding and lying didn't do any good.

Now when I realised all this and have grown a little wiser I want us to rekindle that old bond.

- I plead you,to not think about the society and accept me the way I am.

- I request you to allow me to live my life, the way i want to. I will make you proud of me. I promise.

- I beg you to stop worrying about what society says about my thoughts, likes and habits.

- I humbly request you to stop worrying about my marriage. I will marry, when I get "the one" . I want to experience a lot many things before that. I take responsibility for my life partner. I will look for him on my own. Relax.

- Please stop thinking about what your society says about me being so called "bindaas". If living a happy life means "bindaas and characterless", I don't mind that tag.

- Having guy friends, going out on vacations with them or putting pictures with them on social media, doesn't make me a slut. They are my friends who've been with me through every thick and thin when you weren't here. I love them to bits and they are like my siblings.

Mom, all I want to tell you is that you're the only person that means to me. And I want us to share our lives with each other authentically.

I refuse to be a hypocrite.

We don't know for how long we're alive.

Life changes in a moment.

I have nothing to do with people who bring others down, out of insecurity, jealousy and frustration.

They have no right in our lives.

We are our world.

Let's just end it there.

Let's just love each other like maniacs.

Unconditionally.

Will you promise this ?

Use Social Media for Matrimony

The social media is not only useful for information, social news and fun but also in other useful avenues like match making. In India social media is now everywhere, so on social media you get very good information for matrimonial in India.
You can use social media to your favor using some simple tips:

1. Using Social Profiles to get more information

Usually you get some information from matrimonial website but not able to gauge complete personality,, likes, dislikes, and other important information. By using social media you get access to more information.
examples:
i) You can gather more about the career of your would-be using linkedin.com. Today almost every professional has a linkedin profile. If you are in early stages of a potential relation, it helps a lot, since career information is most important piece of information you need as a lot in your future depends on career stability of your partner.
ii) Many people prefer doing some verification checks on potential partner. It has become easier using social media. You may get to know about social circles of the would be partner and get information from people if you are known to someone in that circle.
iii) You can use twitter to see what kind of tweets he/she has made till now. It gives you a glimpse of interest areas of the person.

2. Exploring Social Circles an groups online

There are many groups on facebook and google+ that you can use to your benefit. Many groups exist which you can join to get access to a potential match. For example: a group that has profiles from your city, or from your caste/community helps you to get access to many good profiles.

3. Joining events organized through social media

There are regular meeting events being organised by facebook and other social media users. meetup is also very useful for this purpose. In these type of gatherings you get to meet many people matching your interest. This is very effective tool to get easy access to persons of your liking.

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First Meeting Conversation Starters

A lot of people are clueless about what to discuss on the first meeting. Just so that you do not end up boring or scaring the opposite person, we’re giving you a list of topics to discuss with your partner on your first meeting. In most cases, people run out of topics in less than 10 – 15 minutes. It’s important that the two of you have a relaxed chat that makes you both comfortable talking to each other. So here are some topics you could talk on…

1. Why did you choose to find your partner through a matrimonial site?

2. What’s your idea of a successful relationship?

3. What are your career goals at the moment?

4. What are the qualities that you’re looking for in your life partner?

5. Are you prepared for marriage or you’ll give it a thought only when you find someone?

6. Are you okay with relocating to another country post marriage?

7. Who or what has been the biggest influence in your life?

8. What do you enjoy doing the most? Do you like music, travelling, reading, etc?

9. Are you a foodie? What kind of cuisines do you like?

10. What do you hate most about first dates or meetings?

Unconditional Love for True Relationship

"True Relationship needed Unconditional Love"

When I saw you i fell in love

and you smiled because

you knew!!!!

Life time relationship required True love, when you love someone unconditionally & take a care of her/him every small things then you sure, you both are ready to tie in that relationship.  True love have a power to change anyone.  

Value of 7 Vows in an Indian Wedding.....

In Hinduism it is believed that rituals and customs are the true ingredients for a happy married life. The seven vows taken at the time of a Hindu marriage are the seven promises sworn by the bride and the groom. These vows are sworn during the pheras taken around the sacred fire called the havan kund. The sacred fire is the witness of the vows sworn by the groom and the bride. The priest continuously chants the vedic mantras during the pheras. The bride and groom then pledge their commitment to take care of each other in any circumstances throughout their life.

The 7 Vows

Seven Vows In Hindu Wedding

1) The first vow says, the bride and the groom would provide prosperity as a household to the family and would stand against those who try to hinder.

2) The second vow says ,the bride and the groom would lead a healthy life by developing their physical, mental and spiritual.

3) The third vow says, the couple would earn a living and increase by proper means, so that their materialistic wealth increases manifold.

4) The fourth vow says, the married couple would respect, love & understand each other and would acquire knowledge, happiness and harmony.

5) The fifth vow says, the couple would expand their family by having healthy, brave and honest children, for whom, they will be responsible.

6) The sixth vow says, the bride and the groom should have self-control of the mind, body and soul and should have long marital relationship.

7) The seventh and the last vow says, they promise that they would be true and loyal to each other and would remain companions and best of friends for the lifetime.

Tips For Setting a Matrimonial Profile

You are on SAJANSAJANIMARRIAGE.COM for a purpose, right? So you need to make sure you have the right kind of information in your matrimonial profile. This will not just make it easy for you to find the right match but also improve your chances of receiving interests from members who match your criteria. You need to highlight your attributes and set the tone of your personality. If you are not sure about what to write in your profile, here are some tips to keep in mind while creating your profile…

1. Choose the Right Community

Finding a partner online is easy only when your profile is complete. On SAJANSAJANIMARRIAGE.com, you have the option to choose a community you wish to find a partner from. All you have to do is select the right community, fill in other details about you and the kind of partner you’re looking for.

2. Be Honest

It’s a bad idea to start a relationship with a lie. You rather be honest! You may not be prince charming or a princess but there are people who appreciate honesty. You never know, they might end up liking you for the kind of person you are. Avoid uploading someone else’s picture on your profile. People need to get what they saw on your profile when they meet you. If you misrepresent yourself by uploading an old photo or someone’s else’s photo, it just ends there. SHE/he wouldn’t want to meet you again. Also, do not hide red flags like a divorce or children in your profile. Potential matches will find out at some point.

3. Post ‘Happy’ Pictures

Ever seen those pictures of people ‘Before’ and ‘After’ the weight loss plan? The person is always frowning in the ‘Before’ picture, where as in the ‘After’ picture, there’s a smile, which is supposed to help sell a product. Similarly, happy pictures have more chances of getting people to express interest in you. So, choose pictures that make you look nice, fun and outgoing.

4. Focus on Your Uniqueness

This allows you to find people who are compatible with you. Focus on the interesting things that you would want your prospective spouse to know about you. Also, this space is not meant for you to write about your childhood hobbies like stamp collecting or making book marks, etc. You could write about you, your family and qualities you are looking for in your Life Partner.

5. Be a Bit Humorous

We know it’s a matrimonial profile, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be witty. A profile with some humor in it is tough for people to resist. So, if you’re witty show it in your profile — but don’t force the jokes please!